Lady Gaga’s mom sent me an email last week. “We’re moving towards a braver and kinder society, Beth, and it’s all thanks to you!” she wrote.
I probably need not clarify that Cynthia Germanotta doesn’t actually know me. She got my name when I surfed over to the website of the foundation that she and her pop-phenom daughter are launching today at Harvard’s Sanders Theater. The site had a place to type in my name along with a button that said, “was born this way.” As in, “I, Beth, was born this way.” Born what way?
Like Lady Gaga’s hit song and 2011 album of the same name — and, like Gaga herself — the Born This Way Foundation is clearly queer without being exclusively gay. Pink triangles open and close the song’s freaky futuristic music video, and lyrics like “don’t be a drag, just be a queen” are side-by-side with lyrics that include anyone who might at some point have been “outcast, bullied, or teased,” like “black, white, beige, chola descent, / You’re Lebanese, you’re orient.” Lady Gaga has built her career on not being pegged or boxed in or predicted, and it seems her foundation plans to similarly spread the message to be yourself, no matter who you are. The website speaks of individuality, self-expression, bravery, and empowerment without ever actually saying the word “gay.” Continue reading “Born What Way?” »