Are We Overparenting Our Kids?
In the December issue, Boston magazine contributor Katherine Ozment examines overparenting by taking a look at her own family (see: Welcome to the Age of Overparenting).
As part of our look at the culture of overparenting, we asked a panel of experts to weigh in with their views.
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Jerome Kagan
When a majority in a society notice an increase in tension, uncertainty, or malaise, they search for a reason. Americans are especially prone to implicating the improper behaviors of parents as the culprits. The term overparenting implies that parents are doing something wrong. These...
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Merle Bombardieri
Trying to control the future is like trying to take the master carpenters place / When you handle the master carpenters tools / Chances are you will cut yourself Tao te Ching
Lets face it. Even though its sensible to plan for our childrens future, we arent in complete control....
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Peter Gray
Partly because of overprotective parenting, children are deprived of free play today as they never have been before outside of the times and places of forced child labor. The consequences are disastrous. Here are some facts to consider:
1. Since about 1950, childrens opportunities for free play with other...
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Laura Markham
Whats a helicopter parent? Someone who hovers more than you do.
Seriously, nobody tries to be a helicopter parent. But parenting is the toughest job in the world, so most of us obsess sometimes. The irony is that so many of the ways we over-do it as parents actually sabotage our childs...
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Hilary Levey Friedman
At the annual College Board conference this fall, the dean of admissions at Harvard, William Fitzsimmons, revived some parental panic. According to The New York Times, he told an assembled crowd that successful Harvard applicants are good all-rounders academically, extracurricularly, and personally.
This wasnt the first time, and it...
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